Self advocacy for non-speaking children and children with emerging language

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Self advocacy is about speaking up for yourself – knowing what you need and telling others about it.   

Who is this advice for?  

Self advocacy is especially important for children and young people with different needs, as it helps them feel more confident and become more independent.  

How will this advice support my child? 

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These resources are designed to support your child to: 

  • advocate for themselves within everyday activities and routines
  • advocate for themselves when solving problems or during communication breakdowns
  • communicate to advocate for different supports, due to their communication differences. 

Developing self-advocacy skills is a gradual process, and it is never too early to start working on them.  

It does not matter how a person communicates; they can advocate for themselves. A child or young person can advocate for themselves using spoken words, written language, symbols and sign, whichever way they find it easiest to explain their needs and what they need the other person to do to help them. 

Learning to advocate for themselves is key not just at home but also at school and later in the workplace. It allows people to express their needs, make choices about their lives and stand up for their rights. 

 

Advice

Create a one-page profile (or communication passport)

Create a one-page profile of their strengths, needs, and preferences, aiming to provide a quick overview for those who interact with them. 

It would highlight their unique qualities, communication styles, and how they best thrive, rather than focusing on deficits. This profile would be a living document, evolving as their needs and understanding of themselves change.  

Find hundreds of blank templates at Sheffkids, relating to different interests. 

Use a menu of reasonable adjustments

It can be hard for an autistic person to identify their needs in a given moment and what they need as a reasonable adjustment. Having a 'menu' of adjustments can be modelled to the child and help them to pick what they want or need.

Browse the 'Menu of reasonable adjustments' advice sheet: here is an example, we advise you create an individual menu for your child, dependent on their specific differences and preferences.   

Further support

 Neurowild – Let’s talk about communication 23 page resource

Let's talk about communication - Neurowild: Child friendly, for adults to use with children at home, in class etc. This resource includes 18 illustrated pages and 2 questionnaires for older children with more language.

Pablo 

'Pablo' iPlayer: CBeebies children’s programme 'Pablo' uses short animations with his friends to help understand what it means when someone has autism. Pablo creates imaginary friends, who come to life and together go on fun adventures which help them understand and cope with day-today situations. There are many episodes available on iPlayer covering a range of day to day activities.

Talking to your child about autism — CBeebies: This webpage contains ideas for talking about autism to younger neurodivergent and neurotypical children after watching Pablo. Use these to support your child’s awareness of communication differences, so they can then understand reasonable adjustments and self-advocate.   

'Pablo' CBeebies: Further Pablo themed resources are available on this webpage. 

Book about reasonable adjustments aimed at ages 3 – 7 years

"It was supposed to be sunny": A perfectly planned birthday party goes awry in this gentle story about adapting to the unexpected, written for kids on the autism spectrum and called "brilliant" and "engaging" by autism specialist Tony Attwood.