Noticing adults in play and early interaction skills: Social interaction and communication support for younger children not noticing adults in play

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Who is this advice for?

These play-based resources may be useful to get an interaction going if your child…
-    Prefers to play without others 
-    Engages in a short back and forth with you during play
-    Walks away when you try to join them in their play

Whilst it is important to allow children time to learn and decompress on their own, we should also give them opportunities to interact, so they can choose to join in with others if, or when, they are ready.  

How will this advice support my child?

These resources will support your child to: 

-    Express pleasure during activities or in interactions 
-    Notice others during an activity or in an interaction
-    Allow an adult to join in an activity
-    Build their early interaction skills to facilitate more opportunities for communication

Watch first! Top tips for developing social interaction webinar!

JOIN – Join, Observe, Imitate & Naturally model language 
  
Video: Watch this 12-minute webinar. Learn about JOIN! (join, observe, imitate, naturally model language). For parents/carers, setting staff and health professionals. 

 

Advice

Support and accept different play styles

Webinar: Understanding and supporting different play styles

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Watch 'Understanding and supporting different play styles'

Watch this 6 minute webinar to learn to understand and support different play styles. And, how to support others to value your child’s play styles and preferences.

Download 'Understanding and supporting the different play styles' advice sheet: learn to understand and support different play styles. And, how to support others to value your child’s play styles and preferences.

Support your child to anticipate what will happen in play routines

Download the 'Anticipating what will happen' advice sheet: Support your child to anticipate what will happen in play routines. This helps them engage with you and understand what comes next, helping their communication skills to develop in a natural way. 

Follow your child's lead to support interactions

Explore these advice sheets and webpages to support you to follow your child’s lead and include their interests, this will facilitate longer back and forth interactions.

Speech and Language UK: Changing young lives: 'Help your child play with you'

Speech and Language UK: Changing young lives: 'Follow your child's lead'

The Hanen Centre: 'Include your child’s interests: Building interaction with autistic children'

BBC Tiny Happy People: 'What to do when your child prefers to play differently'

Use visuals to support your child's understanding

Worcestershire Language and Speech Therapy: 'Using AAC to help children with routines video — Watch this 3 minute video explaining how to use objects, photos or pictures to support a child’s understanding of routines.  

Sense: 'Objects of reference' — Browse this webpage to learn more about implementing Objects of Reference to support your child's understanding.

Apply these strategies to routines too

Speech and Language UK: Changing young lives:  'Making the most of daily routines' — a  summary of strategies to make the most of routines for supporting communication.